{"id":379,"date":"2023-09-24T07:47:50","date_gmt":"2023-09-24T07:47:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/?p=379"},"modified":"2023-09-24T07:47:50","modified_gmt":"2023-09-24T07:47:50","slug":"%e7%a5%9e%e5%ad%a6%e5%af%bc%e8%ae%ba_%e9%98%85%e8%af%bb_059a_%e8%b4%9e%e6%b4%81%e7%9a%84%e5%96%9c%e4%b9%90%ef%b9%95%e5%9c%a3%e7%bb%8f%e7%9a%84%e6%80%a7%e4%bc%a6%e7%90%86%e7%ae%80%e9%87%8a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/?p=379","title":{"rendered":"\u795e\u5b66\u5bfc\u8bba_\u9605\u8bfb_059A_\u8d1e\u6d01\u7684\u559c\u4e50\ufe55\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u6027\u4f26\u7406\u7b80\u91ca"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><strong>III.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>059A\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>\u8d1e\u6d01\u7684\u559c\u4e50\ufe55\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u6027\u4f26\u7406\u7b80\u91ca<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>IV.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>JOY IN PURITY: A Biblical Approach to Sexuality<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5728\u6027\u4e0e\u8d1e\u6d01\u65b9\u9762\u6323\u624e<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>WHY CHRISTIANS STRUGGLE WITH SEXUALITY AND PURITY<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u591a\u5e74\u6765\ufe50\u534e\u4eba\u5bf9\u4e8e\u6027\u4f26\u7406\u611f\u5230\u9ad8\u5ea6\u7684\u5c34\u5c2c\u3002\u867d\u7136\u6027\u662f\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u5f88\u57fa\u672c\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u5c42\u9762\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u534e\u4eba(\u6559\u4f1a)\u5bf9\u8fd9\u65b9\u9762\u7684\u8ba8\u8bba\ufe50\u5f80\u5f80\u662f\u53ef\u514d\u5219\u514d\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Traditionally, sexual ethics has made Chinese people uncomfortable.\u00a0 Although it is a very basic part of our existence, Chinese people mostly choose to avoid the subject.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>\u53ef\u662f\u5f53\u4ee3\u7684\u534e\u4eba\u9752\u5e74\/\u6210\u5e74\u6bcf\u5929\u90fd\u88ab\u4e16\u4fd7\u5bf9\u7684\u6027\u89c2\u5ff5\u6240\u8f70\u70b8\u3002\u7ed3\u679c\u662f\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5bf9\u6027\u7684\u89c2\u5ff5\u591a\u662f\u4e16\u4fd7\u7684\ufe50\u5f02\u6559\u7684\u3002\u8fd9\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u7075\u547d\u7684\u957f\u8fdb\ufe50\u9020\u6210\u4e25\u91cd\u4f24\u5bb3\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>But contemporary Chinese young adults are constantly bombarded with the world\u2019s attitude to sin.\u00a0 The result is that we have adopted a pagan view to sex. This harms our Christian growth.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li>\u4e0d\u5c11\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5bf9\u4e8e\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\u7684\u8ba4\u8bc6\u975e\u5e38\u7f3a\u4e4f \u2013 \u4ed6\u4eec\u8ba4\u4e3a\ufe50\u53ea\u8981\u611f\u89c9\u5fc3\u91cc\u5e73\u5b89 \/ \u8212\u670d\ufe50\u5c31\u662f\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\u4e86 (\u5c31\u662f\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u9009\u62e9\u4e86) \u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some Christians have a woefully inadequate view of God\u2019s will \u2013 that if they feel peace doing something, it is God\u2019s will (it is the right thing to do).<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li>\u4eca\u5929\u897f\u65b9\u5bf9\u4e8e\u201c\u5bb9\u5fcd\u201d \u7684\u89c2\u5ff5\u7684\u80cc\u540e\ufe55\u4f26\u7406\u4e0e\u4eba\u7684\u5c0a\u4e25\u7684\u89c2\u5ff5\u90fd\u975e\u5e38\u5f31\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The concept of tolerance today: a weak view of human morality and dignity.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li>\u6709\u4e9b\u4e2d\u56fd\u4eba\u8ba4\u4e3a\u7f8e\u56fd\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u6bd4\u8f83\u5f00\u653e\u7684\u56fd\u5bb6\ufe50\u56e0\u6b64\u5f88\u591a&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u8bf4\u662f\u72af\u7f6a\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\ufe50\u90fd\u4e0d\u77e5\u4e0d\u89c9\u7684\u4e60\u4ee5\u4e3a\u5e38\ufe50\u4ee5\u4e3a\u662f\u7406\u6240\u5e94\u5f53\u7684\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some Chinese people have taken for granted that the USA is a more open country, and that many sinful practices are common and acceptable.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li>\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u56e0\u4e3a\u4ee5\u524d\u72af\u8fc7\u7684\u7f6a\u800c\u6709\u5f88\u6df1\u7684\u8d1f\u7f6a\u611f (\u5185\u759a) \u4e0e\u7f9e\u803b\u611f\u3002\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u57fa\u7763<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u5f92\u5f80\u5f80\u53c8\u4e0d\u6b63\u89c6\u7f6a\ufe50\u4e0d\u9762\u8d23\u72af\u7f6a\u8005\u3002\u72af\u7f6a\u800c\u4e0d\u8ba4\u7f6a\ufe50\u95ee\u9898\u5c31\u65e5\u76ca\u590d\u6742\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Many struggle with guilt and shame over sin we have committed. But Christians do not confront sin in the church.\u00a0 Thus, unconfessed sin is allowed to fester.<\/p>\n<p>\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u867d\u7136\u5982\u6b64\u2026Yet, in spite of the above\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u9762\u5bf9\u4e00\u4e9b\u975e\u5e38\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u8bfe\u9898<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>THE NEED TO FACE THE ISSUES INVOLVED<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u4eba\u751f\u662f\u6709\u76fc\u671b\u7684\ufe57<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>There is hope.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>\u5173\u4e8e\u7537\u5973\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\ufe50&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u5df2\u8ba2\u4e0b\u4e00\u4e9b\u4f26\u7406\u51c6\u5219\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u8fd9\u4e9b\u51c6\u5219\u8bb0\u8f7d\u5728\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u91cc\u3002<\/p>\n<p>There are Biblical norms to pure relationships between men and women.<\/p>\n<p>These norms are found in God\u2019s Law.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li>\u201c\u5185\u5fc3\u611f\u89c9\u5e73\u5b89\u201d \u8fd9\u4e2a\u539f\u5219\ufe50\u662f\u4e0d\u8db3\u591f\u51b3\u5b9a\u662f\u5426\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\u7684\u3002&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u544a\u8bc9<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5e94\u8be5\u5982\u4f55\u611f\u89c9\ufe54\u7a76\u7adf\u4ec0\u4e48\u624d\u662f\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u201c\u5e73\u5b89\u201d\ufe56 \u8fd9\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u7b54\u6848\u8981\u4ece<\/p>\n<p>&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u91cc\u53bb\u627e\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u4ee5\u8ddf\u7740\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u6216\u4e16\u4fd7\u6587\u5316\u8d70\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFeeling peace about it\u201d is not an adequate, nor a biblical approach to discovering God\u2019s will.\u00a0 There are Biblical norms as to what feelings we should feel (e.g. what is true \u201cpeace in our hearts\u201d?).\u00a0 We cannot follow secular psychology or secular culture.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u9752\u5c11\u5e74\u3002\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4eec\u95ee\u5f88\u591a\u8bda\u6073\u7684\u95ee\u9898\ufe54\u4ed6\u4eec\u8981\u6c42\u6559\u4f1a\u7ed9\u5766\u7387\u7684\u7b54\u6848\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Our young adults demand honest answers to honest questions.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li>\u6210\u719f\u7684\ufe50\u4e0a\u4e00\u4ee3\u7684\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\ufe50\u5fc5\u987b\u5b66\u4e60\ufe50\u4e86\u89e3&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\ufe55\u7a76\u7adf\u6211\u4eec\u7684<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u4fe1\u4ef0\u5982\u4f55\u5f71\u54cd\u6211\u4eec\u5bf9\u6027\u7684\u6001\u5ea6\ufe56<\/p>\n<p>Older Christians should also need to understand, and take a stand, on how our Christian faith affects our attitudes toward sex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u8d1e\u6d01\u4e0e\u7ba1\u6559\ufe55\u4e00\u4e9b\u57fa\u672c\u7684\u539f\u5219<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>PURITY AND DISCIPLINE: BASIC PRINCIPLES<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li>\u4f5c\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u7684\u76ee\u6807\u4e4b\u4e00\ufe50\u5c31\u662f\u57f9\u517b\u4e00\u4e2a\u5728\u795e\u9762\u524d\u6e05\u6d01\u7684\ufe50\u6ca1\u6709\u5185\u759a\u7684\u826f\u5fc3\u3002\u6709\u6e05\u6d01\u7684\u826f\u5fc3\ufe50\u4f1a\u5e26\u6765\u65e0\u9650\u7684\u559c\u4e50\u4e0e\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\u80fd\u529b\u3002\u795e\u4e0d\u8981\u6211\u4eec\u56e0\u7740\u6deb\u5ff5\u800c\u6b32\u706b\u653b\u5fc3\u3002\u795e\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u6211\u4eec\u5992\u5fcc\ufe50\u82e6\u6bd2\u7684\u6e21\u8fc7\u4e00\u751f\u3002\u795e\u8981\u6211\u4eec \u300c\u6ca1\u6709\u79d8\u5bc6\u300d \u5730\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u76ee\u6807\u5c31\u662f\u5728\u795e\u91cc\u9762\u5b8c\u5168\u6ee1\u8db3\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u82e5\u4fe1\u9760\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u8d66\u7f6a\u4e4b\u6069\ufe50\u6ee1\u8db3\u7684\u5fc3\u7edd\u5bf9\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f97\u5230\u3002\u795e\u5df2\u8d50\u6211\u4eec\u5e2e\u52a9\ufe50\u5f15\u5bfc\ufe50\u6559\u6211\u4eec\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u8d70\u4eba\u751f\u7684\u9053\u8def\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>One of the primary goals of the Christian life is to nurture a conscience which is free from guilt before God.\u00a0 This is a tremendous source of joy and strength.\u00a0 God does not want us to burn with lust, nor to struggle with envy and bitterness.\u00a0 God wants us to live \u201cwith no secrets.\u201d\u00a0 Contentment in God is the goal, and it is always available when we put our trust in Christ and his forgiveness.\u00a0 God has given us guidance and help, for us to live that way.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li>\u795e\u662f\u5723\u6d01\u7684\u795e\u3002\u795e\u7684\u5429\u5490\u4e0e\u8981\u6c42\ufe50\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u8981\u5723\u6d01\u3002 (\u5f7c\u524d1\ufe5515) \u867d\u7136\u6211\u4eec\u4f1a\u72af\u7f6a\ufe50\u867d\u7136\u6211\u4eec\u6d3b\u5728\u4e00\u4e2a\u90aa\u6076\u7684\u6587\u5316\u91cc\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u795e\u7684\u6807\u51c6\u662f\u4e0d\u6539\u53d8\u7684\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u82e5\u4e0d\u656c\u754f\u795e\ufe50\u800c\u53ea\u770b\u522b\u4eba\u5982\u4f55\u770b\u5f85\u6211\u4eec\u800c\u505a\u4eba (\u8fd9\u662f\u4ece\u5f17\u83b1\u4f9d\u5fb7\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u800c\u6765\u7684\ufe50\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0d\u8db3\u591f\u5e2e\u52a9\u6211\u4eec\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u539f\u5219\ufe50\u662f\u4e0e&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u80cc\u9053\u800c\u9a70\u7684\u539f\u5219) \ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5c06\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u80fd\u89e3\u51b3\u6211\u4eec\u5fc3\u4e2d\/\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0a\u7684\u95ee\u9898\ufe50\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u7ecf\u5386\u5230\u795e\u7684\u8d50\u798f\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>God is holy, and demands that we be holy.\u00a0 I Peter 1:15.\u00a0 Our sin and our pagan attitudes do not change God\u2019s standards. As long as we do not fear God, and only live according to what others think of us(a woefully inadequate, and an unbiblical view of life stemming from Sigmund Freud\u2019s secular psychology), we will never solve our problems properly, and experience God\u2019s blessing.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li>\u795e\u6309\u7167\u7942\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u521b\u9020\u6211\u4eec\u3002\u795e\u662f\u5723\u6d01\u7684\ufe50\u7942\u6309\u7167\u7942\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u9020\u7537\u9020\u5973\u3002\u5723\u6d01\u662f\u795e\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u4efd\ufe55\u521b1\ufe5526-28\ufe50\u5f174\ufe5524\ufe50\u897f3\ufe5510\u3002 \u795e\u4e5f\u521b\u9020\u6211\u4eec\u6ee1\u6709\u667a<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6167\ufe50\u53ef\u4ee5\u8ba4\u8bc6\u771f\u7406\ufe50\u8fc7\u7740\u516c\u4e49\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>We were created in the image of God. God is holy, and has created men and women in his own image.\u00a0 Holiness is part of this: Genesis 1:26-28, Ephesians 4:24,<\/p>\n<p>Colossians 3:10.\u00a0 God has also created us to be wise and know the truth, and to live<\/p>\n<p>righteously before him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u795e\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u6b32\u671b\u4e0e\u6027\u7684\u65e8\u610f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>GOD\u2019S WILL FOR OUR BODIES, OUR DESIRES AND SEX<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u5728\u795e\u7684\u773c\u4e2d\u662f\u5723\u6d01\u7684\ufe50\u662f\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\ufe50\u662f\u91cd\u8981\u7684\ufe50\u5c31\u50cf\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u601d\u60f3\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8ba1\u5212\u5728\u795e\u9762\u524d\u4e5f\u662f\u540c\u6837\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u4e00\u6837\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u5c3d\u5fc3\ufe50\u5c3d\u610f\ufe50\u5c3d\u6027\ufe50\u5c3d\u529b (\u610f\u601d\u5c31\u662f\ufe55\u5c3d\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u77e5\ufe50\u60c5\ufe50\u610f) \u7231\u4e3b\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u795e\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Our bodies are just as holy, spiritual and important to God, as our thoughts, emotions and plans.\u00a0 We are to love the Lord our God with all our hearts, minds, souls and wills.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u4fdd\u6301\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u601d\u60f3\u5723\u6d01\u7eaf\u771f\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u5e94\u8be5\u53ea\u601d\u60f3\u90a3\u4e9b\u5728\u795e\u773c\u4e2d\u662f\u9ad8\u8d35\ufe50\u7f8e\u5584\u7684\u4e8b (\u81534\ufe558-9) \u3002\u8fd9\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4e00\u4e2a\u539f\u5219\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u601d\u60f3\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u611f\u89c9 \/ \u6b32\u671b\u90fd\u4e0d\u662f\u300c\u4e2d\u7acb\u300d \u7684\ufe55\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u601d\u60f3\u7684\u4e3b\ufe50\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u611f\u89c9 \/ \u6b32\u671b\u7684\u4e3b\ufe57 \u7942\u8981\u6c42\u6211\u4eec\u8ddf\u4ece\u7942\u7684\u8bdd\ufe54\u7942\u7684\u8bdd\u5c31\u662f\u771f\u7406\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Our minds are to be holy and pure.\u00a0 We are to think thoughts which are noble and good in God\u2019s eyes (Philippians 4:8-9)\u00a0 This means that our minds and our desires are not \u201cneutral\u201d areas: Jesus is Lord over our minds and desires!\u00a0 He wants us to follow His Word, which is truth.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li>\u8fd9\u91cc\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u610f\u4e49\ufe55\u6027\u672c\u8eab\u4e0d\u662f\u90aa\u6076\u7684\ufe50\u4e0d\u662f\u80ae\u810f\u7684\u3002\u6027\u672c\u8eab\u4e0d\u662f\u5c5e\u8089\u4f53\ufe50\u4e0d\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\u3002\u795e\u521b\u9020\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u521b\u9020\u6027\u3002\u6027\u662f\u795e\u6240\u8d50\u7ed9\u4eba (\u7537\ufe50\u5973) \u7684\ufe50\u7528\u6765 \ufe55(\u4e00) \u8868\u8fbe\u7231\ufe50(\u4e8c) \u8ba9\u4eba\u7c7b\u7e41\u6b96\ufe50(\u4e09) \u5728\u5a5a\u59fb\u91cc\u9762\u4eab\u53d7\u3002\u4eba\u8bef\u7528\u6027\u65f6\ufe50\u624d\u662f\u72af\u7f6a\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Sex by itself is not dirty.\u00a0 It is not \u201cfleshly\u201d vs. spiritual.\u00a0 God created bodies and sex.\u00a0 Sex is a means which God has given men\/women to (a) express love, (b) reproduce the human race, and (c) to enjoy in marriage.\u00a0 Sex is only sinful when it is misused.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u5a5a\u524d\u6027\u5173\u7cfb\u662f\u5e72\u72af\u4e86\u795e\u5bf9\u4eba\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0e\u6b32\u671b\u6240\u8bbe\u7acb\u7684\u754c\u9650\u3002\u5b83\u4ee5\u601d<\/p>\n<p>\u60f3\u4e2d\u7684\u6deb\u5ff5\u5f00\u59cb\ufe50\u4ee5\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0a\u7684\u72af\u7f6a\u7ed3\u675f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Pre-marital sex is a violation of the boundaries set by God for our bodies and desires.\u00a0 It begins with sin in our minds, and ends with sinning with our bodies.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u540c\u6027\u604b\u884c\u4e3a (\u5305\u62ec\u5728\u601d\u60f3\u4e0a\u5e1d\u548c\u884c\u52a8\u4e0a\u7684) \u8fdd\u80cc\u4e86\u795e\u5728\u4eba\u7c7b\u4e2d\u6240<\/p>\n<p>\u8bbe\u7acb\u7684\u79e9\u5e8f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Homosexual behavior (including lust in the mind and acts in the body) is a violation of God\u2019s order.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u5978\u6deb\u662f\u4efb\u4f55\u8fdd\u80cc\u5a5a\u7ea6\u7684\u7f6a\ufe50\u4e0d\u8bba\u662f\u4ee5\u601d\u60f3\u6216\u4ee5\u8eab\u4f53\u72af\u7f6a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Adultery is any violation of marriage covenant, whether by sinning with our minds, or sinning with our bodies.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u6deb\u5ff5\u4e0e\u9ec4\u8272\u5a92\u4f53\ufe50\u4e43\u662f\u5728\u601d\u60f3\u4e0e\u5df2\u773c\u775b\u80cc\u9006\u795e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Lust and pornography\u00a0 are disobedient uses of our minds and eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u53ec\u5993\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u8bef\u7528\u8eab\u4f53\u7684\u7f6a\u884c\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u4e0e\u5a3c\u5993\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u7075\u9b42\u7ed3\u5408\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Prostitution is a disobedient use of our bodies.\u00a0 We come into union and fellowship with the prostitute.<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u7f51\u7edc\u4e0a\u7684\u865a\u62df\u6027\u884c\u4e3a\u662f\u601d\u60f3\u4e0a\u7684\u6deb\u4e71\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u5f15\u81f3\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0a\u7684\u72af\u7f6a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: Virtual sex is a sin of the mind, which leads to sinning with our bodies.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u771f\u7231\ufe55\u4fe1\u9760\u795e\ufe50\u5c0a\u91cd\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u90bb\u5c45<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>TRUE LOVE: TRUSTING GOD, HONORING OUR NEIGHBORS<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"12\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u76f8\u4fe1\ufe50\u795e\u7ed9\u6211\u4eec\u7684\ufe50\u90fd\u662f\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u6700\u597d\u7684\u3002\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u4ee5\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u601d\u60f3\u6216\u6b32\u671b\u987a\u670d\u795e\u7684\u65f6\u5019\ufe50\u795e\u4e0e\u6211\u4eec\u540c\u884c\ufe50\u7ed9\u6211\u4eec\u91ca\u653e\u7684\u826f\u5fc3\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>We must believe that God desires our highest good.\u00a0 When we obey God in our bodies, minds and desires, He walks with us and gives us that free conscience.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"13\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u5fc5\u987b\u77e5\u9053\ufe55\u522b\u4eba\u4e5f\u662f\u6309\u795e\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u88ab\u9020\u7684\u3002\u795e\u6309\u7167\u7942\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u9020\u4eba\u7684\u6db5\u610f\u5c31\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u5f97\u7f6a\u522b\u4eba\u3002\u522b\u4eba\u6709\u4f5c\u4eba\u7684\u5c0a\u4e25\ufe50\u4e0d\u53ef\u4fb5\u72af\u3002\u8fd9\u5305\u62ec\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u79c1\u9690\ufe50\u548c\u4ed6\u4eec\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0e\u5fc3\u7075\u7684\u795e\u5723\ufe50\u6574\u5168\u6027\u3002\u82e5\u5df2\u5a5a\u8005\ufe50\u4ed6\u4eec\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u5723\u6d01\u4e5f\u5e94\u5f53\u5c0a\u91cd\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Other people are created in the image of God. God\u2019s creation of human beings in his\u00a0\u00a0 own image also means that: we are not to sin against others.\u00a0 They have a certain dignity which is not to be violated.\u00a0 This includes the privacy and integrity of their bodies and hearts, and the integrity of their marriage (if married).<\/p>\n<p>\u5341\u8beb\u5429\u5490\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u5c0a\u91cd\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u597d\u5904\u548c\u58f0\u8a89\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u6740\u4eba\ufe50\u4e0d\u53ef\u5077\u76d7\ufe50\u4e0d\u53ef\u4f5c\u5047\u89c1\u8bc1\ufe50\u56e0\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u7406\u5f53\u7231\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u90bb\u820d\ufe50\u5c0a\u91cd\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u8d22\u52a1\u3002(\u89c1\u4e0b\ufe50#11)<\/p>\n<p>The Ten Commandments directs us to honor other people\u2019s well being and<\/p>\n<p>reputation.\u00a0 We are not to kill, not to steal, not to bear false witness, because we<\/p>\n<p>should love our neighbors, and honor his\/her possessions.\u00a0 (see below, #11)<\/p>\n<p>\u539f\u5219\u5e94\u7528\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u82e5\u4ee5\u6deb\u5ff5\u770b\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0e\u8863\u670d\ufe50\u4fbf\u4fb5\u72af\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0e\u7075\u9b42\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Application: We violate other people\u2019s bodies and souls, when we look at other<\/p>\n<p>people\u2019s clothing or bodies with lust.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\ufe55\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8863\u670d\u6311\u9017\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u601d\u60f3(\u6deb\u5ff5) \u65f6\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5c31\u79f0\u4e3a\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u7eca\u811a\u77f3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Example: We cause other people to stumble, lust and sin, when we dress or act in<\/p>\n<p>provocative ways, to lure others to lust after us.\u00a0 (\u201cStumble-wear\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\ufe55\u5815\u80ce\u4e43\u662f\u6740\u4e00\u4e2a(\u8fd8\u672a\u51fa\u751f\u7684) \u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Example: Abortion is the killing of another (unborn) person.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\ufe55\u56e0\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u604b\u7231\ufe50\u5a5a\u59fb\u800c\u5992\u5fcc\u4e0e\u82e6\u6bd2\ufe50\u4e43\u662f\u7531\u4e8e\u5411\u795e\u4e0d\u611f\u6069\ufe50\u540c\u65f6\u4e0d\u5c0a\u91cd<\/p>\n<p>\u522b\u4eba (\u522b\u4eba\u662f\u6309\u7167\u795e\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u88ab\u9020\u7684) \u3002<\/p>\n<p>Example: Jealousy, envy and bitterness over someone else\u2019s relationships and<\/p>\n<p>marriage, are rooted in ungratefulness to God, and disrespect for other people who<\/p>\n<p>are created in the image of God.<\/p>\n<p>\u9644\u5e26\u4e00\u70b9\ufe55&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u591a\u63d0\u5230\u4eba\u7684\u5c0a\u4e25\ufe50\u5c11\u63d0\u5230\u4eba\u7684\u6743\u5229\u3002<\/p>\n<p>By the way, the Bible speaks more of the dignity of people, than human rights.<\/p>\n<p>\u8054\u5408\u56fd\u7684\u56fd\u9645\u4eba\u6743\u5ba3\u8a00\u662f&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u6559\u4e49\u7684\u4e16\u4fd7\u5316\u7248\u672c\u3002&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\u662f<\/p>\n<p>\ufe50\u795e\u6309\u7167\u7942\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u9020\u4eba\ufe50\u56e0\u6b64\u4eba\u6709\u5c0a\u4e25\u3002<\/p>\n<p>The UN Universal Declaration of Human Rights is a secular version of<\/p>\n<p>The teaching of the Bible concerning the image of God in man.<\/p>\n<p>\u7231\u5c31\u662f\u5c0a\u91cd\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u90bb\u5c45\ufe50\u8c0b\u6c42\u90bb\u5c45\u6700\u9ad8\u7684\u597d\u5904\u3002\u7231\u7684\u672c\u8d28\ufe50\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u611f\u89c9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Love is honoring and seeking the best for our neighbor \u2013 it is not a feeling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u771f\u81ea\u7531\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u8d1f\u8d23\u4efb<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>TRUE FREEDOM: WE ARE RESPONSIBLE<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"14\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u6240\u4f5c\u7684\u4e00\u5207\ufe50\u90fd\u8981\u5411\u795e\u8d1f\u8d23\u3002\u4e9a\u5f53\u4e0e\u590f\u5a03\u72af\u7f6a\u5815\u843d\u4e4b\u540e\ufe50\u795e\u95ee\u4ed6\u4eec\ufe55<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u4f60\u5728\u54ea\u91cc\ufe56\u521b\u4e16\u8bb03\u7ae0\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u9003\u907f\u795e\u7684\u3002\u8bd7\u7bc7139\u3002<\/p>\n<p>We are accountable to God for what we do. When man (Adam and Eve) had sinned, God asked: Where are you?\u00a0 Genesis 3.\u00a0 We cannot hide from God \u2013 Psalm 139.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"15\">\n<li>\u795e\u7684\u5ba1\u5224\u662f\u771f\u7684\ufe50\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e0d\u80fd\u9003\u907f\u7684\u4e8b\u5b9e\u3002\u867d\u7136\u795e\u662f\u5145\u6ee1\u6069\u5178\u4e0e\u7231\u7684\u795e\ufe50\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5815\u843d\u4e86\u7684\u7f6a\u4eba\u65bd\u6069\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u795e\u4e5f\u662f\u5723\u6d01\u7684\u795e\u3002\u795e\u7edd\u5bf9\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8fdd\u80cc\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6027\u683c\u7684\u3002\u51fa\u57c3\u53ca\u8bb034\ufe557\u4e0b\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Judgment is real. While God is gracious and loving toward humans even after we have sinned and fallen, God is also holy. God is true to his character.\u00a0 Exodus 34:7b.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"16\">\n<li>\u795e\u7684\u5ba1\u5224\ufe50\u5305\u62ec\u60e9\u7f5a\u3002\u795e\u5c06\u4e9a\u5f53\u4e0e\u590f\u5a03\u4ece\u4f0a\u98a0\u56ed\u8d76\u51fa\u6765\u3002\u867d\u7136\u8fd8\u662f\u6709\u6069\u5178\ufe50\u601c\u60af(\u795e\u4e3a\u4ed6\u4eec\u7528\u52a8\u7269\u7684\u76ae\u5b50\u4f5c\u4e86\u88d9\u5b50) \ufe50\u6700\u5e26\u6765\u4e24\u4e2a\u540e\u679c\ufe55<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\ufe55\u6c38\u6b7b\ufe54<\/li>\n<li>\u5c5e\u4e16\u7684\ufe50\u4eca\u751f\u7684\ufe55\u7f6a\u8fdb\u5165\u4e86\u4eba\u95f4\u3002(\u7f57\u9a6c5\ufe5512-19)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u795e\u5fc5\u7136\u5ba1\u5224\ufe54\u5ba1\u5224\u4f1a\u5e26\u6765\u540e\u679c\ufe57\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u795e\u4e0d\u662f\u6069\u5178\ufe50\u601c\u60af\u7684\u795e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Judgment includes punishment. Adam and Eve were evicted from the Garden of Eden. Even though there is grace and mercy (God made skirts of skin for them),<\/p>\n<p>there are two kinds of consequences to sin:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>spiritual (eternal death), and<\/li>\n<li>temporal (sin enters the world of humans). (Romans 5:12-19)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Punishment, as well as consequences, do not mean that God is not gracious.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"17\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u5bf9\u522b\u4eba\u5982\u4f55\u884c\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u4e3a\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8d1f\u8d23\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u5411\u795e\u8d1f\u8d23\u3002\u795e\u5e76\u4e0d\u63a5\u53d7\u8be5<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u9690\u7684\u89e3\u91ca\ufe55\u6211\u5c82\u662f\u6211\u7684\u5f1f\u5144\u7684\u770b\u5b88\u8005\ufe56\u5f88\u591a\u65f6\u5019\ufe50\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u72af\u7f6a\u5f97\u7f6a\u795e\u7684\u65f6\u5019<\/p>\n<p>\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u540c\u65f6\u5f97\u7f6a\u4e86\u522b\u4eba (\u6309\u7167\u795e\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u88ab\u9020\u7684\u4eba) \u3002<\/p>\n<p>We are accountable for what we do to others. God holds us accountable.\u00a0 He does not accept Cain\u2019s response: Am I my brother\u2019s keeper?\u00a0 Often when we sin against God, we also sin against our fellow human beings created in the image of\u00a0 God.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"18\">\n<li>\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u613f\u610f\u5411\u795e\u8d1f\u8d23\u65f6\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u4f1a\u7ecf\u5386\u5230\u5185\u759a\u4e0e\u7f9e\u803b\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>When we are not willing to be accountable before God, guilt and shame results.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\ufe55\u5c0a\u91cd\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\ufe50\u7ecf\u5386\u795e\u7684\u6069\u5178<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>GOD\u2019S WILL: HONORING GOD\u2019S LAW,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>EXPERIENCING GOD\u2019S GRACE<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"19\">\n<li>\u795e\u5df2\u7ecf\u9881\u53d1\u4e86\u7942\u5723\u6d01\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u72af\u5978\u6deb\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u4fb5\u72af\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u7eaf\u6d01\ufe50\u522b\u4eba\u795e\u5723\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u4f5c\u5047\u89c1\u8bc1\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u53ef\u8d2a\u5fc3\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>God gave us His law. We are not to commit adultery: we are not to violate others\u2019 bodies, purity, marriage.\u00a0 We shall not give false witnesses, we are not to covet.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"20\">\n<li>\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u4eca\u5929\u4ecd\u7136\u751f\u6548\u3002\u5f8b\u6cd5\u5728\u4e09\u65b9\u9762\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u6709\u7528\ufe55<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>\u8ba9\u5168\u4eba\u7c7b\u77e5\u9053\u795e\u5723\u6d01\ufe50\u666e\u4e16\u7684\u51c6\u5219\u3002<\/li>\n<li>\u8ba9\u7f6a\u4eba\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9700\u8981\ufe50\u77e5\u9053\u9700\u8981\u6765\u5230\u57fa\u7763\u9762\u524d\u3002<\/li>\n<li>\u8ba9\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u51c6\u5219\u6765\u8fc7\u8ba8\u795e\u559c\u60a6\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The law of God is valid today.\u00a0 It is useful in three ways:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>For mankind to know God\u2019s universal, holy standards.<\/li>\n<li>For sinners to realize our need for Christ.<\/li>\n<li>For Christians, as a guideline to holy living pleasing to God.<\/li>\n<li>\u795e\u8981\u6c42\u7942\u7684\u5b50\u6c11\u6559\u5bfc\u7942\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u3002\u7533\u547d\u8bb0\u516d\u7ae0\u3002\u628a\u5f8b\u6cd5\u6d82\u5728\u95e8\u574e\u4e0a\ufe50\u7b49\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u610f\u601d\u662f\ufe55\u7236\u6bcd\u5fc5\u987b\u6559\u5bfc\u513f\u5973\ufe50\u5236\u9020\u73af\u5883\u8ba9\u513f\u5973\u5b66\u4e60\u795e\u7684\u8bdd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5bb6\u5ead\u4e0e\u6559\u4f1a\ufe50\u662f\u795e\u8bbe\u7acb\u7684\u5236\u5ea6\ufe50\u4ee5\u6559\u5bfc\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u95ee\u9898\u662f\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u4eca\u5929\u5f88\u7f3a\u4e4f\u5bb6\u5ead\u4e0e\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\u4e0e\u4fdd\u62a4\u3002<\/p>\n<p>God expects his people to teach His law.\u00a0 Deuteronomy 6<\/p>\n<p>Painting the law on doorposts: parents are to teach their children.<\/p>\n<p>The family and the church are institutions ordained by God to teach His law.<\/p>\n<p>Problem: we do not have the protection\/teaching of the family\/church today.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"22\">\n<li>\u795e\u662f\u6069\u5178\u7684\u795e\u3002\u4eba\u7c7b\u5815\u843d\u4e4b\u540e\ufe50\u795e\u7acb\u523b\u5f00\u59cb\u6210\u5c31\u6551\u6069\u3002\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u533b\u6cbb\u7f6a\u5728\u6211\u4eec\u4eca\u751f\u9020\u6210\u7684\u540e\u679c\u3002\u4e43\u662f\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\u95ee\u9898\ufe55\u60e9\u7f5a\ufe50\u63d0\u4f9b\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u89e3\u51b3\u65b9\u6848\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6551\u6cd5\u5c31\u662f\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u7684\u5b9d\u8840\u3002\u795e\u7684\u786e\u8d66\u514d\u90a3\u4e9b\u6094\u6539\ufe50\u4fe1\u9760\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u7684\u5b9d\u8840\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u800c\u6211\u4eec\u5462\ufe56\u6211\u4eec\u5e94\u8be5\u9976\u6055\u6094\u6539\ufe50\u4fe1\u9760\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763(\u5f97\u7f6a\u6211\u4eec)\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>God is gracious.\u00a0 When mankind has fallen, God immediately provided for our<\/p>\n<p>salvation.\u00a0 Not just healing us of our temporal consequences, but a true solution to our<\/p>\n<p>spiritual punishment. The solution, in short, is the blood of Jesus Christ. God does<\/p>\n<p>forgive those who repent and trust in the blood of Jesus. By extension, we are to<\/p>\n<p>forgive others who repent and trust in Christ.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"23\">\n<li>\u6094\u6539\u4e43\u662f\u7b54\u6848\u3002\u662f\u5f97\u5230\u4e0e\u795e\u548c\u597d\u7684\u552f\u4e00\u9053\u8def\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u72af\u7f6a\ufe50\u8dcc\u5012\u65f6\ufe50\u9020\u501f\u53e3\u662f\u6ca1\u7528\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u89e3\u51b3\u7f6a\u8fd9\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\ufe50\u5c31\u662f\u6094\u6539\u3002\u8bd7\u7bc751\u7bc7\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u552f\u72ec\u72af\u7f6a\u5f97\u7f6a\u4f60\ufe50\u795e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6094\u6539\u5e94\u8be5\u7ed3\u51fa\u679c\u5b50\u3002 (\u89c1\ufe55\u65bd\u6d17\u7ea6\u7ff0\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u3002)<\/p>\n<p>\u6094\u6539\u5f53\u7136\u5305\u62ec\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u7f6a\u8d1f\u8d23\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Repentance is the solution; it is the way to peace with God.<\/p>\n<p>When we sin and fail, the solution is not to make excuses.<\/p>\n<p>The solution is true repentance.\u00a0 Psalm 51<\/p>\n<p>Against You, and You only, have I sinned (David, Psalm 51).<\/p>\n<p>Repentance should issue forth fruit.\u00a0\u00a0 (Cf. John the Baptist).<\/p>\n<p>Repentance certainly includes accepting responsibility for our sin.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"24\">\n<li>\u795e\u662f\u601c\u60af\u7684\u795e: \u795e\u662f\u6069\u5178\u7684\u795e\u3002\u7942\u89e3\u51b3\u4e86\u7f6a\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u795e\u4e5f\u662f\u601c\u60af\u7684\u795e\u3002\u7942\u533b\u6cbb\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u75db\u82e6\ufe50\u56e0\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u9762\u5bf9\u7684\ufe50\u6b63\u662f\u7f6a\u5728\u4eca\u751f\u6240\u5e26\u6765\u7684\u540e\u9057\u75c7\u3002\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u5e94\u8bb8\ufe55\u7942\u6c38\u4e0d\u79bb\u5f03\u6211\u4eec\u3002(\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f328\ufe5519-20)<\/p>\n<p>God is merciful.\u00a0 God is gracious \u2013 he solved our sin problem. God is also merciful \u2013<\/p>\n<p>he heals us in our suffering, as we face temporal consequences of sin.\u00a0 Jesus promises<\/p>\n<p>never to leave us.\u00a0 (Matthew 28:19-20).<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u795e\u6240\u7ed9\u7684\u771f\u76fc\u671b\ufe50\u771f\u5e2e\u52a9<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>REAL HOPE AND REAL HELP, GOD\u2019S WAY<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"25\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u5fc3\u601d\u610f\u5ff5\u5fc5\u987b\u66f4\u65b0\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u6210\u4e3a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u65f6\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5c31\u8981\u5f00\u59cb\u5b66\u4e60\u4e00\u4e9b\u65b0\u7684<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6001\u5ea6\ufe50\u65b0\u7684\u4ef7\u503c\u89c2\ufe50\u65b0\u7684\u770b\u6cd5\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u5fc3\u610f\u66f4\u65b0\u800c\u53d8\u5316\ufe55\u610f\u601d\u5c31\u662f\u8bf4\ufe50\u8981\u5b66\u4e60\u65b0\u7684\u5b87\u5b99\u4eba\u751f\u89c2\u3002\u7f57\u9a6c\u4e6612\ufe552<\/p>\n<p>Our minds need to be renewed.\u00a0 When we become Christians, we need to learn to<\/p>\n<p>learn new attitudes, values, perspectives, and values. We are to be transformed by the<\/p>\n<p>renewal of our minds.\u00a0 Romans 12: 2<\/p>\n<p>\u82e5\u8981\u514b\u670d\u6deb\u5ff5\u6216\u514b\u670d\u82e6\u6bd2\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u987b\u8981\u6709\u795e\u7684\u8bdd\ufe50\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\u5145\u6ee1\u6211\u4eec\u5fc3\u601d\u610f\u5ff5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>To overcome lust or bitterness, you need God\u2019s Word to fill your minds.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"26\">\n<li>\u795e\u7684\u6551\u8d4e\u8ba1\u5212\u5305\u62ec\ufe55\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u6765\u5230\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\ufe50\u5efa\u7acb\u7942\u7684\u6559\u4f1a\u3002\u6559\u4f1a\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\ufe56<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6559\u4f1a\u788e\u5c38\u795e\u7684\u5b50\u6c11\ufe50\u662f\u57fa\u7763\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u795e\u7684\u5b50\u6c11\u88ab\u57fa\u7763\u7684\u8840\u6d01\u51c0\u4e86\ufe50\u88ab\u795e<\/p>\n<p>\u547c\u53ec\u6210\u4e3a\u5723\u6d01\ufe50\u4f5c\u5c5e\u795e\u7684\u5b50\u6c11\u3002<\/p>\n<p>God\u2019s plan of salvation included the fact that Jesus Christ came to establish his<\/p>\n<p>church on earth.\u00a0 The church is the fellowship of God\u2019s people, washed by the blood<\/p>\n<p>of Jesus Christ, called to be holy, God\u2019s own possession.<\/p>\n<p>\u6559\u4f1a\u5b58\u5728\u7684\u76ee\u7684\ufe55 \u656c\u62dc\u795e\ufe50<\/p>\n<p>\u5f7c\u6b64\u5efa\u7acb\ufe50\u8ba9\u4fe1\u5f92\u4eec\u6210\u719f\ufe50\u5b66\u50cf\u57fa\u7763\ufe50<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u89c1\u8bc1\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u6069\u5178\u7684\u798f\u97f3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>The church exists to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>worship God,<\/li>\n<li>build believers up to be like Christ, and<\/li>\n<li>witness to the gospel of the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol start=\"27\">\n<li>\u56e2\u5951\ufe50\u4ea4\u901a\u662f\u9700\u8981\u5305\u62ec\u8d23\u4efb\u7684\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u5f7c\u6b64\u5b88\u671b\ufe50\u5f7c\u6b64\u8d1f\u8d23\u3002\u6c11\u6570\u8bb0\ufe55\u795e<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u7684\u5b50\u6c11\u662f\u518c\u4e0a\u6709\u540d\u7684\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u987b\u8981\u4ee5\u7231\u5fc3\u8bf4\u771f\u7406 (\u8bda\u5b9e\u8bdd) &#8211; \u5f174\ufe5515\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Fellowship includes accountability and responsibilities.\u00a0 Numbers: God\u2019s people are<\/p>\n<p>counted.\u00a0 Speak the truth in love \u2013 Ephesians 4:15<\/p>\n<ol start=\"28\">\n<li>\u56e2\u5951\ufe50\u4ea4\u901a\u662f\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\u7ed3\u5408\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u8eab\u4e3a\u57fa\u7763\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\ufe50\u4e43\u662f\u4e0e\u5176\u4ed6\u7684\u5f1f\u5144\u59ca\u59b9<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u63a5\u8fde\ufe50\u6210\u4e3a\u4e00\u4e2a\u8eab\u4f53\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7f9e\u803b\u7684\u95ee\u9898\ufe55\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u9762\u5bf9\u771f\u7406 \/ \u771f\u76f8\u3002\u4e0d\u7136\u7684\u8bdd\ufe55\u53ea\u80fd\u5728\u6697\u4e2d\u79d8\u5bc6\u505a\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Fellowship is a spiritual bond. We are bonded to each other as the body of Christ.<\/p>\n<p>Issue of shame: face the truth.\u00a0 Alternative: secrecy.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"29\">\n<li>\u6559\u4f1a\u662f\u65b0\u7ea6\u7684\u76df\u7ea6\u56e2\u4f53\ufe50\u6709\u8d23\u4efb\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u63d0\u4f9b\u5c5e\u7075\u7684\u4fdd\u62a4\u3002\u4f60\u6211\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u5c5e\u7075\u7684<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u4fdd\u62a4\ufe50\u7279\u522b\u662f\u5728\u4eca\u5929\ufe50\u5bb6\u5ead\ufe50\u5bb6\u65cf\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u518d\u63d0\u4f9b\u9053\u5fb7\u4e0a\u5e1d\u4fdd\u62a4\u4e0e\u76d1\u7ba1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>The church as the covenant community gives us spiritual protection.\u00a0 You and I need<\/p>\n<p>spiritual protection, especially in an age when the extended family is not available.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"30\">\n<li>\u795e\u5728\u6559\u4f1a\u91cc\u8ba2\u4e0b\u4e86\u9886\u8896\u7684\u804c\u4f4d\u3002\u957f\u8001\u4eec\u662f\u56e2\u961f\u9886\u5bfc\ufe50\u63d0\u4f9b\u4fdd\u62a4\ufe50\u8d1f\u8d23\u56e2\u4f53\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u51fa\u57c3\u53ca\u8bb0\ufe55\u6469\u897f\u7684\u5cb3\u7236\u7684\u529d\u544a\u3002 \u5c3c\u8d6b\u8fc8\u4e9a\ufe55\u7ec4\u7ec7\u9886\u8896\ufe54\u6309\u7167\u5bb6\u5ead\u5206\u6d3e\u5de5\u4f5c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u65b0\u7ea6\ufe55\u6309\u7acb\u957f\u8001\u3002<\/p>\n<p>God has ordained leadership in the church: team leadership, to provide protection<\/p>\n<p>and accountability.\u00a0 Exodus: advice from Moses\u2019 father-in-law<\/p>\n<p>Nehemiah: organizing the leaders; assignments according to household<\/p>\n<p>New Testament: elders<\/p>\n<ol start=\"31\">\n<li>\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u9886\u8896\u4eec\ufe50\u5fc5\u987b\u5728\u6559\u5bfc\u4e0e\u7ba1\u6559\u65b9\u9762\u5e26\u9886\u4f1a\u4f17\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u7ba1\u6559\u662f\u6709\u795e\u8bbe\u7acb\u7684\u6b65\u9aa4\u7684:\u00a0 \u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f318\ufe5515-18<\/p>\n<p>\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b65\ufe55\u79c1\u4e0b\u9762\u8d23\u3002\u00a0 \u7b2c\u4e8c\u6b65\ufe55\u5e26\u4e00\ufe50\u4e24\u4e2a\u89c1\u8bc1\u4eba\u9762\u8d23\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7b2c\u4e09\u6b65\ufe55\u544a\u8bc9\u6559\u4f1a\u3002\u00a0 \u7b2c\u56db\u6b65\ufe55\u5f00\u9664\u4f1a\u7c4d\u3002 \u5fc5\u987b\u8ddf\u8fd9\u4e2a\u6b21\u5e8f\ufe57<\/p>\n<p>\u7ba1\u6559\u7684\u76ee\u7684\ufe55\u9976\u6055\u4e0e\u91cd\u65b0\u5efa\u7acb\u4e00\u4e2a\u751f\u547d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Leaders are to lead in teaching and discipline.<\/p>\n<p>THERE ARE PROCEDURES TO FOLLOW IN DISICPLINE<\/p>\n<p>Matthew 18:15-18<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>one on one confrontation.<\/li>\n<li>confrontation with a couple of witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>tell it to the church.<\/li>\n<li>Expel the unrepentant sinner from the church.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>In the proper order !<\/p>\n<p>Purpose: forgiveness, and restoration<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u4e24\u4e2a\u5e38\u88ab\u8bef\u4f1a\u7684\u89c2\u5ff5<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>TWO TERMS OFTEN MISUNDERSTOOD<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"32\">\n<li>\u4e0d\u53ef\u8bba\u65ad\ufe50\u4e0e\u5224\u65ad (\u5ba1\u5224) \u7684\u5fc5\u9700\u6027\ufe50\u4e24\u8005\u662f\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\ufe50\u4e5f\u4e0d\u77db\u76fe\u7684\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6797\u524d\u516d\u7ae0\ufe55\u795e\u8ba9\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u6709\u667a\u6167\ufe50\u6709\u80fd\u529b\u5728\u6559\u4f1a\u91cc\ufe50\u5bf9\u7f6a\u4f5c\u51fa\u5224\u65ad\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u4e03\u7ae0\ufe55\u8bba\u65ad\u662f\u6307\u4e00\u79cd\u6001\u5ea6\u3002\u89c9\u5f97\u6bd4\u522b\u4eba\u5f3a\ufe50\u6bd4\u522b\u4eba\u5723\u6d01\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e8b\u5b9e\u4e0a\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u662f\u7f6a\u4eba\ufe50\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u90fd\u662f\u8499\u6069\u7684\u7f6a\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5bf9\u7f6a\u4f5c\u51fa\u5224\u65ad\ufe50\u662f\u795e\u7ed9\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u8d23\u4efb\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002<\/p>\n<p>There is a difference between \u201cjudging\u201d and \u201cbeing judgmental\u201d:<\/p>\n<p>I Corinthians 6 \u2013 God has made us competent to judge.<\/p>\n<p>Matthew 7 &#8212; Being judgmental is an attitude.\u00a0\u00a0 I am holier than you.<\/p>\n<p>We are all sinners, saved by grace.<\/p>\n<p>Pronouncing judgment is a duty God has given to the church.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"33\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u79f0\u7f6a\u4e3a\u7f6a\u3002\u8fd9\u6837\ufe50\u6709\u8d66\u514d\u7684\u53ef\u80fd\ufe57<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u5728\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u4e86\u89e3\u91cc\ufe50\u795e\u7684\u6069\u5178\u4e0e\u795e\u7684\u516c\u4e49\u5fc5\u987b\u8fde\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Call sin sin. Because forgiveness is available!<\/p>\n<p>HOLD GRACE AND JUSTICE TOGETHER<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u7ed3\u8bba<\/strong><strong> \/ <\/strong><strong>\u5e94\u7528<\/strong><strong>CONCLUSION\/APPLICATION<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"34\">\n<li>\u4f60\u7ecf\u5386\u4e86\u795e\u7684\u6069\u5178\ufe50\u795e\u8d66\u7f6a\u7684\u6069\u5178\u5417\ufe56<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Do you know God\u2019s grace and forgiveness in your life?<\/p>\n<ol start=\"35\">\n<li>\u4f60\u719f\u8bc6\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u5417\ufe56\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u613f\u610f\u9075\u5b88\u795e\u7684\u5f8b\u6cd5\u5417\ufe56<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>How well do you understand God\u2019s law?\u00a0 How willing are you to obey?<\/p>\n<ol start=\"36\">\n<li>\u4f60\u6709\u6ca1\u6709\u91c7\u53d6\u884c\u52a8\u8ba9\u4f60\u7684\u5fc3\u610f\u66f4\u65b0\u800c\u53d8\u5316\ufe50\u4ece\u795e\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u6765\u770b\u4e8b\u60c5\ufe56<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>What steps have you taken to be renewed in your mind about issues and standards?<\/p>\n<ol start=\"37\">\n<li>\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u5e2e\u52a9\u5417\ufe56\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u8d1f\u8d23\u5417\ufe56\u5411\u522b\u4eba\u8d1f\u8d23\ufe56\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u7ba1<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6559\u5417\ufe56\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u957f\u8f88\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u4fdd\u62a4\u5417\ufe56\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u5f15\u5bfc\u5417\ufe56<\/p>\n<p>Do you need help?\u00a0 Counseling? Protection?\u00a0 Accountability?\u00a0 Discipline? Guidance?<\/p>\n<ol start=\"38\">\n<li>\u6211\u4eec\u7a76\u7adf\u6559\u5bfc\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u9752\u5c11\u5e74\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e1c\u897f\ufe56<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u8bd7\u7bc751 &#8211; \u6234\u7ef4\u6c42\u795e\ufe50\u8ba9\u4ed6\u5411\u5c06\u6765\u7684\u4e16\u4ee3\u6559\u5bfc (\u5ba3\u8bb2) \u795e\u7684\u6069\u5178\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8bd7\u7bc7102 &#8211; \u6234\u7ef4\u867d\u7136\u7edd\u671b\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u7edd\u671b\u5316\u4e3a\u76fc\u671b\ufe50\u6234\u7ef4\u6df1\u4fe1\u795e\u5c06\u6765\u8fd8\u8981\u52a8\u5de5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>What are we teaching our youth?<\/p>\n<p>Psalm 51 \u2013 David prayed to teach future generations about God\u2019s grace.<\/p>\n<p>Psalm 102 \u2013 Despair ended with hope for God\u2019s work in a future generation.<\/p>\n<p>059B\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u300a\u5723\u7ecf\u300b\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u4e0e\u518d\u5a5a\u89c2<\/p>\n<p>MARRIAGE, DIVORCE AND RE-MARRIAGE IN THE BIBLE<\/p>\n<p>\u7ecf\u6587\ufe55<\/p>\n<p>\u521bGenesis 2: 24\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u7533Deuteronomy 24:1-4 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u7bb4Proverbs 2:17<\/p>\n<p>\u739bMalachi 2:13-16 \u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u592aMatthew 5:31, 32 (esp. 32) \u592aMatthew 18:15-18<\/p>\n<p>\u592aMatthew 19:3-9 (esp. 9) \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u6797\u524dI Corinthians 7:10-16<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u5f15\u8a00\ufe55\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u9700\u8981\u8ba8\u8bba\u8fd9\u9898\u76ee\ufe56<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Introduction.\u00a0 Why Discuss the Topic?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e2d\u95f4\ufe50\u5305\u62ec\u534e\u4eba\u798f\u97f3\u6d3e\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u4fe1\u5f92\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\u8d8a\u6765\u8d8a\u666e\u904d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Divorce is increasingly common among Christians.\u00a0\u00a0 No longer a taboo word.<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\u65f6\ufe50\u5f71\u54cd\u5230\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u3002\u5c0f\u5b69\u4eb2\u621a\ufe50\u5168\u6559\u4f1a\u7b49\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Many are affected, and suffer the consequences, when divorce happens.<\/p>\n<p>\u795e\u5728\u300a\u5723\u7ecf\u300b\u4e2d\u5bf9\u4e8e\u5a5a\u59fb\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\u4e0e\u518d\u5a5a\u6709\u6e05\u695a\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u9700\ufe50\u4e5f\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u53ea\u9760\u6211\u4eec\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5(\u5e38\u8bc6) \u6765\u6b63\u89c6\u8fd9\u4e9b\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p>God has spoken on marriage, divorce, and re-marriage.\u00a0 Don\u2019t go by our own<\/p>\n<p>ideas.<\/p>\n<p>\u795e\u4e3a\u79bb\u5a5a\u4e2d\u7684\u53d7\u5bb3\u8005\u63d0\u4f9b\u5e2e\u52a9\ufe50\u652f\u6301\u4e0e\u5b89\u6170\u3002\u6797\u524d10\ufe5513<\/p>\n<p>God offers help, support and comfort for those who suffer the consequences of divorce.\u00a0 I Cor. 10:13<\/p>\n<p>\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5e38\u5e38\u5bf9\u4e8e\u7231\u7684\u771f\u4e49\ufe50\u5a5a\u59fb\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u6027\ufe50\u7f6a\u4e0e\u518d\u5a5a\u6709\u4e0d\u5408\u4e4e&lt;&lt;\u5723\u7ecf&gt;&gt;\u7684\u89c2\u5ff5\u3002\u7f57\u9a6c\u4e6612\ufe552<\/p>\n<p>Christians often have un-biblical ideas about love, marriage, divorce, sex, sin and re-marriage.\u00a0 Romans 12:2<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u5e94\u8be5\u5f7c\u6b64\u62c5\u5f53\u91cd\u62c5(\u52a06\ufe552) \u3002\u56e0\u6b64\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u9700\u8981\u795e\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\u3002<\/p>\n<p>We are to bear one another\u2019s burdens (Galatians 6:2).\u00a0 So God\u2019s instructions are<\/p>\n<p>necessary.<\/p>\n<p>\u5bf9\u79bb\u5a5a\u6709\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u8ba4\u8bc6\ufe50\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e2e\u52a9\u5355\u8eab\u7684\u9752\u5e74\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u597d\u597d\u7684\u51c6\u5907\u7ed3\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Understanding this helps single people prepare properly, biblically for marriage.<\/p>\n<h1><strong>I.\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>\u5a5a\u59fb<\/strong><strong> Marriage<\/strong><\/h1>\n<ol>\n<li>\u795e\u8bbe\u7acb\u5a5a\u59fb\ufe50\u4e3a\u4e86\u7ed9\u4eba\u540c\u4f34(\u521b2\ufe5518)\u3002\u795e\u4e5f\u5429\u5490\u4eba\u7c7b\u8981\u751f\u517b\u4f17\u591a\ufe50\u904d\u6ee1\u5168\u5730(\u521b1\ufe5526-28) \u3002\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e0d\u662f\u4eba\u60f3\u51fa\u6765\u7684\ufe50\u662f\u795e\u6240\u8bbe\u7acb\u7684\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>(\u795e\u5f53\u7136\u77e5\u9053\u4eba\u7c7b\u4f1a\u5426\u4eba\u53e3\u7206\u70b8\ufe50\u5c0f\u5b69\u7684\u5927\u5b66\u6559\u80b2\u592a\u8d35\u7b49\u95ee\u9898\ufe57\u795e\u4ecd\u7136\u5750\u5728\u5b9d\u5ea7\u4e0a\ufe57)<\/p>\n<p>God instituted marriage for companionship (Genesis 2:18).\u00a0 God also wanted man and woman to multiply and fill the earth (Genesis 1:26-28).\u00a0 Marriage is not our idea; it\u2019s God\u2019s idea.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 (Now God of course knows about the population explosion problem, and the expenses of a child\u2019s education, etc.!\u00a0 God is sovereign!)<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e0d\u662f\u5723\u793c(\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u540c\u610f\u5929\u4e3b\u6559\u7684\u6559\u5bfc) \u3002\u7ed3\u5a5a\u5e76\u4e0d\u8ba9\u6211\u4eec\u5f97\u5230\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u6551\u6069<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u3002\u5355\u8eab\u4e5f\u5e76\u4e0d\u7b49\u4e8e\u66f4\u52a0\u5c5e\u7075\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5a5a\u59fb\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u76df\u7ea6\u3002\u662f\u5728\u795e\u9762\u524d\ufe50\u8bc1\u4eba\u9762\u524d\u7acb\u5fd7\ufe50\u7acb\u7ea6\ufe50\u7ec8\u751f\u7231\u5bf9\u65b9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>(\u65e0\u8bba\u5728\u6559\u4f1a\u884c\u793c\ufe50\u6216\u5728\u653f\u5e9c\u9762\u524d\ufe50\u4ea4\u6362\u4e86\u8a93\u7ea6\ufe50\u5c31\u662f\u7ed3\u4e86\u5a5a\u4e86\ufe57)<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is not a sacrament (as the Catholic church teaches).\u00a0 By getting married, you do not gain more grace\/salvation.\u00a0 Nor is singleness more holy\/spiritual.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is a covenant.\u00a0 It is a commitment, a vow before God, to love until death.<\/p>\n<p>(Whether done in a church or in front of a government official, once vows are exchanged, two persons are married!)<\/p>\n<p>\u7bb42\ufe5517<\/p>\n<p>Proverbs 2:17: \u201cthat leaves the companion of her youth and forgets the covenant of her God.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u739b\u62c9\u57fa\u4e662\ufe5514<\/p>\n<p>Malachi 2:14: \u201cthe Lord has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.\u201d<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u7231\u7684\u771f\u4e49\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\ufe56(\u6797\u524d13\u7ae0)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u7231\u5c31\u662f\ufe55\u51b3\u5fd7\u4e3a\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u6700\u9ad8\u597d\u5904\u800c\u6d3b\u3002\u7231\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u7231\u91cc\u6709\u611f\u89c9\ufe50\u7231<\/p>\n<p>\u4e5f\u900f\u8fc7\u611f\u89c9\u6765\u8868\u8fbe\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u4e2a\u529f\u8bfe\ufe50\u795e\u8981\u6211\u4eec\u7528\u4e00\u8f88\u5b50\u6765\u5b66\u4e60\u3002<\/p>\n<p>What is love?\u00a0 (I Corinthians 13)\u00a0 It is a decision to live and act for the other\u2019s highest good.\u00a0 It is not a feeling, though love is expressed with feelings.<\/p>\n<p>This, of course, is a lesson which God wants us to take a whole lifetime to learn.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>\u79bb\u5a5a<\/strong><strong> Divorce<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol>\n<li>\u795e\u6068\u6076\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u79bb\u5a5a\u4ece\u6765\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u795e\u7684\u8ba1\u5212\u3002\u79bb\u5a5a\u662f\u4eba\u7c7b\u5815\u843d\u7684\u540e\u679c\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>God hates divorce. Divorce is never God\u2019s intention.\u00a0\u00a0 Divorce is a consequence of the fall of mankind.<\/p>\n<p>\u739b\u62c9\u57fa\u4e662\ufe5516<\/p>\n<p>Malachi 2:16: \u201c\u2018For I hate divorce,\u2019 says the Lord, the God of Israel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u53ef\u662f\u5728\u4eba\u7c7b\u4e2d\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\u7684\u786e\u4f1a\u53d1\u751f\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\u795e\u867d\u7136\u6068\u6076\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u7942\u7ba1\u5236\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>(\u4f8b\u5982\ufe55\u753324\u7ae0\ufe50\u592a19\u7ae0\ufe50\u6797\u524d7\u7ae0\u7b49\u3002)<\/p>\n<p>But divorce happens.\u00a0 Though God hates divorce, He regulates it (e.g. Deut. 24, Mt. 19, I Cor. 7).<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u867d\u7136\u795e\u7ba1\u5236\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u795e\u7684\u65e8\u610f\u4ece\u6765\u5c31\u662f\ufe55\u4e00\u7537\ufe50\u4e00\u5973 = \u4e00\u4f53\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Even though God regulates divorce, God\u2019s will is\u00a0 \u2013 one man, one woman = one flesh.<\/p>\n<p>\u592a19\ufe556<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.\u201d (Matthew 19:6)<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u8036\u7a23\u6559\u5bfc\u7942\u7684\u95e8\u5f92(\u57fa\u7763\u5f92) \ufe55\u4e0d\u53ef\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u79bb\u5a5a\u4e43\u5c06\u5a5a\u7ea6\u7834\u9664\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Jesus instructs his followers (Christians): do not divorce.\u00a0 Divorce breaks the<\/p>\n<p>marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u592a5\ufe55 31-32<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was said, \u2018Whoever sends his wife away, let him give her a certificate of divorce\u2019: but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except of the reason of unchastity (fornication), makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.\u201d (Matthew 5:31-32)<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li>\u4e0d\u5408\u4e4e\u300a\u5723\u7ecf\u300b\u7684\u79bb\u5a5a\u4e4b\u540e\ufe50\u82e5\u518d\u5a5a\u4e43\u662f\u5978\u6deb\ufe50\u56e0\u4e3a\u8fd9\u4e2a\u540e\u6765\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u635f\u5bb3\u4e86\u5148\u5934\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u5723\u6d01\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6ce8\ufe55\u53ef\u80fd\u5f88\u591a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u76ee\u524d\u6d3b\u5728\u8fd9\u79cd\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u5f53\u4e2d\ufe54\u53ef\u662f\u4e0d\u8981\u968f\u4fbf\u518d\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe54<\/p>\n<p>\u6094\u6539\u5fc5\u8499\u8d66\u514d\ufe57<\/p>\n<p>After a divorce not warranted by the Bible, if either one enters into another marriage, the subsequent marriage is adulterous because it has violated the sanctity of the first marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Note: Many Christians may be living in such \u201cadulterous\u201d 2<sup>nd<\/sup> marriages.\u00a0 However this does not mean that they should hastily go and get another divorce.\u00a0 When we repent of our sins, God promises forgiveness!<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li>\u8036\u7a23\u63d0\u51fa\u4e00\u4e2a\u4f8b\u5916\u60c5\u51b5\ufe55\u6deb\u4e71\u3002<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u6ce8\ufe55\u6deb\u4e71(fornication)\u00a0 = \u6240\u6709\u4e0e\u6027\u6709\u5173\u7684\u7f6a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5978\u6deb (adultery) = \u4efb\u4f55\u8fdd\u80cc\u5a5a\u7ea6\ufe50\u4e0d\u5fe0\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u4e24\u4e2a\u5b57\u5728\u300a\u5723\u7ecf\u300b\u91cc\u6709\u7279\u5b9a\u7684\u7528\u6cd5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u592a5\ufe5532<\/p>\n<p>\u592a19\ufe559<\/p>\n<p>Jesus provides one exception: fornication.<\/p>\n<p>Note: \u201cFornication\u201d is any kind of sexual sin.\u00a0 \u201cAdultery\u201d is any unfaithfulness which\u00a0 violates the marriage vow, sexual or not.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cExcept for the reason of unchastity (fornication)\u201d (Matthew 5:32).<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.\u201d\u00a0 (Matthew 19:9)<\/p>\n<p>\u8036\u7a23\u5728\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b19\ufe559\u9488\u5bf9\u7684\ufe50\u662f\u72b9\u592a\u4eba\u592a\u5bb9\u6613\ufe50\u592a\u8f7b\u7387\u5730\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u795e\u867d\u7136\u7ba1\u5236<\/p>\n<p>\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u8981\u6c42\u4eba\u79bb\u5a5a\u65f6\u5fc5\u9700\u7ed9\u5bf9\u65b9\u4f11\u4e66\ufe50\u53ef\u662f\u795e\u4ece\u6765\u4e0d\u9f13\u52b1\u4eba\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u795e\u4ece\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u5728\u4efb\u4f55\u60c5\u51b5\u91cc\u8981\u6c42\u4eba\u5fc5\u987b\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe57<\/p>\n<p>In Matthew 19:9, Jesus is rebuking the Jews for easy divorces.\u00a0 Though God regulated through certificates of divorce, he did not encourage divorce.\u00a0 God never requires\/encourages divorce!<\/p>\n<p>\u300a\u7533\u547d\u8bb0\u300b24\ufe551-4 \u63cf\u8ff0\u4e00\u4e2a\u60c5\u51b5\ufe55\u7537\u4eba\u4f11\u4e86\u59bb\u5b50\ufe50\u56e0\u4e3a\u5979\u4e0d\u60a6\u76ee\u3002\u5979\u518d\u5a5a\ufe50<\/p>\n<p>\u7b2c\u4e8c\u4e2a\u4e08\u592b\u4e5f\u56e0\u4e3a\u4e0d\u60a6\u76ee\u5979\u800c\u4f11\u4e86\u5979\u3002\u4e24\u6b21\u7684\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u90fd\u662f\u4e0d\u5408\u4e4e\u795e\u7684\u5fc3\u610f<\/p>\n<p>\u7684\u3002\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u79bb\u5a5a\u5728\u795e\u7684\u773c\u4e2d\u662f\u90a3\u4e48\u7684\u4e25\u91cd\ufe55\u5f53\u7b2c\u4e8c\u4e2a\u4e08\u592b\u6b7b\u540e\ufe50\u7b2c\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e08\u592b<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u53ef\u518d\u5a36\u8fd9\u5973\u4eba\u4e3a\u59bb\u3002\u4eba\u518d\u5a5a\u540e\ufe50\u4e0e\u524d\u914d\u5076\u548c\u597d\u518d\u5ac1\/\u5a36\u5c31\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p>(\u6ce8\ufe55\u4e0d\u60a6\u76ee&#8211;\u539f\u6587\u7684\u610f\u601d\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\u786e\u5b9a\u3002)<\/p>\n<p>Deuteronomy 24:1-4 describes a situation:\u00a0 a woman is divorced twice for \u201cunpleasantness\u201d\u2013 God does not approve of either divorce.\u00a0 But divorce is so serious in God\u2019s eyes, that it cannot be remedied through reconciliation, once re-marriage has happened.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency (unpleasantness) in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out from his house, and she leaves his house and goes and becomes another man\u2019s wife,<\/p>\n<p>and if the latter husband turns against her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her to be his wife, then her former husband who sent her away is not allowed to take her again to be his wife, since she has been defiled; for that is an<\/p>\n<p>abomination before the Lord, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the Lord your God gives you as an inheritance.\u201d (Deuteronomy 24:1-4)<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u4ece\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b18\ufe5515-18\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u6765\u770b\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b19\ufe559\u3002\u4e24\u5904\u7ecf\u6587\u90fd\u662f\u8036\u7a23\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\ufe57\u82e5\u6709\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u72af\u4e86\u6deb\u4e71\u7684\u7f6a\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u5e94\u8be5\u8ddf\u7740\u9a6c\u592a18\ufe5515-18\u7684\u56db\u6b65\u9aa4\ufe55<\/p>\n<p>(\u4e00) \u79c1\u4e0b\u9762\u8d23\ufe54(\u4e8c) \u5e26\u4e00\ufe50\u4e24\u4e2a\u8bc1\u4eba\u9762\u8d23\ufe54(\u4e09) \u544a\u8bc9\u6559\u4f1a\ufe54(\u56db) \u5f00\u9664\u4f1a\u7c4d<\/p>\n<p>\ufe50\u628a\u4ed6\u5f53\u4f5c\u5916\u4eba\ufe50\u975e\u4fe1\u5f92\u5bf9\u5f85\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u82e5\u5728\u7b2c1\ufe502\ufe503\u6b65\u4e2d\ufe50\u4ed6\u6094\u6539\u4e86\ufe50\u90a3\u4e48\u4ed6\u5e94\u4e0e\u795e\ufe50\u4e0e\u914d\u5076\u548c\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u592a18\ufe5515-18<\/p>\n<p>Understand Matthew 19:9 in light of Matthew 18:15-18.\u00a0 Jesus is speaking in both places.\u00a0 When a Christian commits fornication, the church must follow 4 steps: (1) speak privately to him, (2) bring witnesses, (3) tell it to the church, (4) if he does not repent, expel him, regard him as a non-believer.\u00a0 If\u00a0 the Christian repents (in steps 1-3), restore him, reconcile him to his spouse.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother.\u00a0 But if he does not listen to you, take one or two more with you, so that by the mouth of two or three witnesses every fact may be confirmed.\u00a0\u00a0 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuse to listen to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and tax collector.\u00a0 Truly I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven.\u201d (Matthew 18:15-18)<\/p>\n<p>\u7eaa\u5f8b(\u7ba1\u6559) \u662f\u8036\u7a23\u57fa\u7763\u5bf9\u5168\u6559\u4f1a\u6e05\u695a\u7684\u5429\u5490(\u5c31\u50cf\u6d17\u793c\u4e0e\u5723\u9910\u662f\u8036\u7a23\u6e05\u695a\u5429\u5490\u7684\u4e00\u6837) \u3002\u7eaa\u5f8b\u7684\u76ee\u6807\ufe50\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\u6062\u590d\u72af\u7f6a\u8005\u4e0e\u795e\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\ufe50\u548c\u4e0e\u4eba(\u5bb6\u5ead) \u548c\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u82e5\u597d\u597d\u6267\u884c\u7eaa\u5f8b\u7684\u8bdd\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u5fc5\u5b9a\u66f4\u5065\u5eb7\u3002\u8fd9\u9700\u8981\u52e4\u52b3\u7684\u4e8b\u5949\ufe50\u662f\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613\u7684\ufe57\u5f88\u591a\u6559<\/p>\n<p>\u4f1a\u5728\u8fd9\u65b9\u9762\u4e8f\u6b20\/\u61d2\u60f0\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Discipline is explicitly commanded by Jesus, like baptism and the Lord\u2019s Supper are.\u00a0 The goal of discipline (Matthew 18) is always to reconcile people to God and others.\u00a0 Discipline contributes to the spiritual health of the church.\u00a0 It is hard work!\u00a0 (Churches are grossly negligent here.)<\/p>\n<p>\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b18\ufe5019\u7ae0\u8981\u4e00\u8d77\u6765\u8bfb\u3002(\u4e00) \u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e0d\u53ef(\u4e3b\u52a8) \u79bb\u5a5a\u3002(\u4e8c) \u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u82e5\u72af\u6deb\u4e71\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u5e94\u8be5\u6309\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b18\u7ae0\u7684\u7a0b\u5e8f\u5904\u7406\u3002(\u4e09) \u72af\u7f6a\u8005\u82e5\u4e0d\u6094\u6539\ufe50\u90a3\u4e48\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u53ef\u4ee5\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u795e\u4ece\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u5429\u5490\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u795e\u4ece\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u9f13\u52b1\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe54\u5728\u8fd9\u4e2a\u60c5\u51b5\ufe50\u795e\u5bb9\u8bb8\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002(\u6ce8\ufe55\u5bf9\u65b9\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u662f\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e86\u3002)<\/p>\n<p>Put Matthew 18 and 19 together: (a) Christians must not divorce.\u00a0 (b) If a Christian commits fornication, follow the 4 steps in Matthew 18.\u00a0 (c) If the sinner does not repent, the Christian has the option to divorce. Divorce is never commanded\/encouraged by God; it is allowed here.<\/p>\n<p>\u4fdd\u7f57\u5728\u300a\u54e5\u6797\u591a\u524d\u4e66\u300b7\ufe5510-11\u6240\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\ufe50\u4e0e\u8036\u7a23\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\u5b8c\u5168\u7b26\u5408\u3002\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e0d\u53ef\u5f7c\u6b64\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>I Corinthians 7:10-11 Paul teaches the same thing as Jesus.\u00a0 Christians cannot divorce each other.<\/p>\n<p>\u53ef\u662f\u5728\u300a\u54e5\u6797\u591a\u524d\u4e66\u300b7\ufe5512-16\ufe50 \u4fdd\u7f57\u5904\u7406\u4e86\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u79cd\u60c5\u51b5\ufe50\u662f\u8036\u7a23\u5728\u798f\u97f3\u4e66\u91cc\u6ca1\u6709\u5904\u7406\u7684\u3002(\u56e0\u6b64\u4fdd\u7f57\u8bf4\ufe50\u300c\u4e0d\u662f\u4e3b\u8bf4\ufe50\u662f\u6211\u8bf4\u3002\u300d)<br \/>\n(\u4e00) \u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5f1f\u914d\u5076\u82e5\u4e0d\u662f\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\ufe50\u90a3\u4e48\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e0d\u53ef\u63d0\u51fa\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u8981\u4e0e\u975e\u4fe1\u5f92<\/p>\n<p>\u540c\u4f4f\u3002(\u4e8c) \u82e5\u975e\u4fe1\u5f92\u8981\u79bb\u5f00\ufe50\u90a3\u4e48\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5fc5\u987b\u8ba9\u4ed6\u79bb\u5f00(\u79bb\u5a5a) \u3002\u795e\u5429\u5490\u57fa<\/p>\n<p>\u7763\u5f92\u8981\u5bb9\u8bb8\u975e\u4fe1\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a(\u82e5\u540e\u8005\u8981\u8fd9\u6837\u4f5c\u7684\u8bdd) \u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6797\u524d7\ufe5510-15<\/p>\n<p>In verses 12-16, Paul deals with a second scenario which Jesus did not deal with: (a) If a Christian has a non-Christian spouse, the Christian must live with him\/her.\u00a0 (b)If\u00a0 the non-Christian leaves (i.e., divorces the Christian), the Christian is commanded to allow for the divorce, for peace\u2019s sake.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife.\u00a0 But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her.\u00a0 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away.\u00a0 For the unbelieving husband I sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy.\u00a0 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace.\u201d\u00a0 (I Corinthians 7:10-15)<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u300a\u54e5\u6797\u591a\u524d\u4e66\u300b7\ufe5512-15\ufe50\u4fdd\u7f57\u8bf4\ufe50\u56e0\u4e3a\u6709\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5728\u4e00\u4e2a\u5bb6\u5ead\u91cc\ufe50\u90a3\u4e9b\u975e\u4fe1\u5f92\u90fd\u6210\u4e3a\u300c\u5723\u6d01\u300d\u4e86\ufe57<\/p>\n<p>In I Cor. 7:12-15, non-Christians are \u201choly\u201d because a Christian is in the home!<\/p>\n<p>\u7ed3\u8bba\ufe55 (\u4e00) \u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b18\ufe5019\u7ae0\u6559\u5bfc\u6211\u4eec\ufe50\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5f1f\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u914d\u5076\ufe50\u82e5\u72af\u6deb\u4e71\ufe50\u800c\u4e0d\u6094\u6539\u4e5f\u4e0d\u542c\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u7eaa\u5f8b\/\u7ba1\u6559\u7684\u8bdd\ufe50\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u53ef\u4ee5\u79bb\u5a5a (\u5230\u90a3\u4e2a\u5730\u6b65\ufe50\u5bf9\u65b9\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u662f\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e86) \u3002(\u4e8c) \u300a\u54e5\u6797\u591a\u524d\u4e66\u300b7\ufe5512-15\u6559\u5bfc\u6211\u4eec\ufe50\u5f53\u4e00\u4e2a\u975e\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5411\u4e00\u4e2a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u63d0\u51fa\u79bb\u5a5a\u65f6\ufe50\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5fc5\u987b\u5bb9\u8bb8\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002\u5728\u8fd9\u4e24\u4e2a\u4f8b\u5916\u60c5\u51b5\u4e0b\ufe50\u795e\u5bb9\u8bb8\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Conclusion: (a) Matthew 18 and 19 teaches that, if a Christian\u2019s Christian spouse commits fornication, does not repent and does not heed discipline, the Christian can divorce his\/her spouse (who by now is regarded as a non-believer).\u00a0 (b) I Corinthians 7:12-15 teaches that when a non-Christian divorces a Christian, the Christian must allow for this divorce and go through with it.\u00a0 These are the two situations where God allows the Christian to participate in a divorce.<\/p>\n<p>\u8bf7\u6ce8\u610f\ufe55\u6240\u8c13\u5fc3\u7075\u7684\u521b\u4f24\ufe50\u4ece\u6765\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u300a\u5723\u7ecf\u300b\u63d0\u4f9b\u7684\u79bb\u5a5a\u7406\u7531\u3002\u53ef\u662f\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u5fc5\u987b\u6839\u636e\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f318\u6267\u884c\u5904\u7406\u72af\u7f6a\u4e8b\u4ef6\ufe50\u8fd9\u5305\u62ec\u4e00\u4e2a\u914d\u5076\u4e0d\u9075\u884c\u5a5a\u7ea6\u7684\u4e49\u52a1\ufe50\u5982\u79bb\u5f03\u5bb6\u5ead\ufe50\u6216\u8650\u5f85\u7b49\u3002\u6709\u8eab\u4f53\/\u751f\u547d\u5371\u9669\u65f6\ufe50\u6559\u4f1a\u5e94\u7acb\u523b\u91c7\u53d6\u884c\u52a8\u4fdd\u62a4\u53d7\u5bb3\u8005\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Note that \u201cmental pain\u201d is never given as a reason for Christians to divorce.\u00a0 The church, however, must follow Matthew 18 and exercise discipline when a spouse neglects or violates his\/her marriage obligations (e.g. by desertion or physical abuse).\u00a0 If there is physical danger, the church should act immediately to protect the injured\/potential victims.<\/p>\n<p><strong>III.\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>\u518d\u5a5a<\/strong><strong> Re-marriage<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u300a\u54e5\u6797\u591a\u524d\u4e66\u300b7\ufe5515\ufe50\u5f53\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u8ba9\u975e\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\u4e4b\u540e\ufe50\u53ef\u4ee5\u518d\u5a5a\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u6700\u81ea\u7136\u89e3\u91ca14\ufe5015\u8282\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002\u82f1\u6587\ufe55\u5728\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e8b\u4e0a\ufe50\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u88ab\u6346\u7ed1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>In I Corinthians 7:15, a Christian who participates in a divorce initiated by his\/her non-Christian spouse, is allowed to re-marry.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace.\u201d\u00a0 (I Cor. 7:10-15)<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u7ed3\u8bba\u662f\ufe50\u5728\u300a\u9a6c\u592a\u798f\u97f3\u300b19\ufe559\ufe50\u8036\u7a23\u8ba9\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u5f53\u5bf9\u65b9\u72af<\/p>\n<p>\u6deb\u4e71\ufe50\u4e0d\u80af\u6094\u6539\u4e5f\u4e0d\u542c\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u7ba1\u6559\u65f6\u3002\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u82e5\u79bb\u5a5a\ufe50\u53ef\u4ee5\u518d\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>We conclude that in Matthew 19:9, Jesus allows divorce to happen in the exceptional case of fornication (with the understanding that, reconciliation is not possible because the fornicator refuses to repent and refuses to heed discipline.)<\/p>\n<p>The most natural interpretation is: he\/she who divorces under these circumstances, can remarry.<\/p>\n<p>Jay Adams, <em>Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible<\/em> (Zondervan 1980).<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDivorce and Remarriage,\u201d <em>PCA Digest: Position Papers 1973-1993<\/em> (info: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pcanet.org\">www.pcanet.org<\/a>; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gcp.org\">www.gcp.org<\/a>).\u00a0 pp. 182-293.<\/p>\n<p>June 9, 2002<\/p>\n<p>\u7f51\u7edc\u5723\u7ea6<a href=\"https:\/\/ccnci.org\">ccnci.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:\u4e2d\u534e\u5c55\u671b\u5723\u7ea6\u5b66\u9662HorizonCovenant@gmail.com\">\u4e2d\u534e\u5c55\u671b\u5723\u7ea6\u5b66\u9662HorizonCovenant@gmail.com<\/a>\uff08PayPal\uff09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>III.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 059A\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u8d1e\u6d01\u7684\u559c\u4e50\ufe55\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u6027\u4f26\u7406\u7b80\u91ca IV.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 JOY IN PURIT [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-15"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=379"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ccnci.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}