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How should l respond to her? First of all\uff0c I\u2019d like to say that I have encountered some\uff0c not too many\uff0c but most of the Hindu people I\u2019ve encountered in Singapore\uff0cMalaysia tend to have deep thoughts because of the Hinduism\uff0c and so we need to respect that profundity of their faith?\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684faith\u5f88profundity \u554a\u3002and they are not wanting to change their worldview\uff0ctheir religion\uff0c which basically fatalism\uff0c\u5bbf\u547d\u8bba\uff0cthe god has planned this suffering so that she can mold it to empathize with others. Now you can continue to be her friend and once in a while\uff0c ask well how are you God help me overcome this problem\u5f53\u7136\u5979\u4e0d\u8981overcome\uff0c so you know, a gently nudge\uff0c basically be a friend.<\/p>\n<p>You know\uff0c\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u6700\u96be\u4fe1\u4e3b\u7684\u4e09\u4e2a\u7fa4\u4f53\u5c31\u662f:\u4e2d\u56fd\u5927\u9646\u3001\u5370\u5ea6\u6559\u548c\u56de\u6559\u5f92\uff0c\u4ece\u6765\u5c31\u662f\u6700\u96be\u7684\u3002\uff0835:51\uff09. Ok, hardest nut to crack for the gospel? is Hinduism\uff0c Hindus\uff0c Muslims and Chinese\u3002<\/p>\n<p>ok\u5f53\u7136\uff0cChinese\u6709\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u597d\u8f6c\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u8fd8\u662f\u5f88\u591a\u3002no magic formula\uff0cno quick fix\uff0c how to avoid legalism in that directive counciling. Well\uff0cFirst of all\uff0cour tone of voices and attitudes are very important.\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u8981\u5206\u4eab\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8f6f\u5f31\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u628a\u4f60\u7684\u5783\u573e\u90fd\u5012\u51fa\u6765\u7ed9\u4ed6\u770b\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u3002\u4f60\u8bf4\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u662f\u7f6a\u4eba\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u795e\u7684\u601c\u60af\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u3001\u6211\u4eec\u3001\u6211\u4eec\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u3001\u4f60\u3001\u4f60\uff0c\u662f\u6211\u4eec\uff08\u8bb2\u8bdd\u8981\u5b66\u7740\u600e\u4e48\u8bb2\uff09\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7136\u540e\u5462\uff0c\u7ed9\u4ed6\u770b\u5230\u5723\u7ecf\u91cc\u7684\u4e30\u5bcc\uff0c The tone of voice should be gentle. And use the word \u201cwe\u201d.We need to grow. How to\uff0c and that\u2019s the beginning of the answer. It\u2019s a huge subject.\u600e\u4e48\u6837\u4e0d\u5f8b\u6cd5\u4e3b\u4e49? How to avoid being judgmental towards counseling\uff0c towards other method of counseling? Can other methods be complementary to biblical counseling? \u597d\uff0c Judgmental is an attitude\uff0c ok\uff0c however\uff0c speaking the truth can carry a judgmental attitude or it may not.\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u5b66\u4e60\uff0c\u667a\u6167\u6e29\u67d4\u540c\u65f6\u7528\u7231\u5fc3\u8bf4\u51fa\u771f\u7406\u3002Judgmental\uff0c the word judgmental is very judgmental. All right. Now the problem is the facts tell us that biblical counseling and secular psychology at this moment in 2018 cannot be complimentary.\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u548c\u5723\u7ecf\u8f85\u5bfc\uff0c\u4e8b\u5b9e\u8bc1\u660e\u73b0\u5728\u662f\u4e0d\u80fd\u591f\u8363\u683c\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5047\u5982\u6211\u4eec\u4eca\u5929\u662f2005\u5e74\uff0c12\u5e74\u524d\uff0c13\u5e74\u524d\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5927\u6982\u4f1a\u8fd9\u6837\u5b50\u6765\u6279\u5224\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u662f\u4eba\u672c\u7684\u3002Humanistic\uff0c\u65e0\u8bba\u662fFreud\uff0cRoger or behaverism\u7b49\u7b49\u3002\u53ef\u73b0\u5728\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u662f\u4e86\uff0c\u73b0\u4ee3\u5feb\u52302020\u5e74\u4e86\uff0cnew age paganism\uff0c\u65b0\u7eaa\u5143\u7684\u5f02\u6559\u7684\u5b97\u6559\u548c\u54f2\u5b66\uff0c\u5df2\u7ecf\u6cdb\u6ee5\u5168\u4e16\u754c\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u5462\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5df2\u7ecf\u770b\u5230\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\uff0c\u7ed9Let me line up three\uff0c four different parties for you. First\uff0c I live in California\uff0c\u00a0 Los Angeles.\u4eceLos Angeles\u5f00\u8f66\u4e24\u4e2a\u5c0f\u65f6\uff0cwest\uff0c\u90a3\u91cc\u53ebSanta\u00a0 Barbara\uff0c \u4eceLos Angeles\u5f00\u8f66\u5f80\u5357\u4e24\u4e2a\u5c0f\u65f6\uff0c\u90a3\u91cc\u53ebSan Diego\uff0c\u518d\u4e0b\u53bb\u5c31\u662fMexico\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4eceSan Diego\uff0c Los Angeles\uff0c the Santa Barbara\u603b\u79f0Southern California\u3002\u8fd9\u4e2aarea\u91cc\u9762\u662f\u6700\u591achannel\u7075\u5a92\uff0832\uff1a38danggi\uff09\u3002ok\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8bf4\u8ddf\u6b7b\u4eba\u6c9f\u901a\u7684\uff0c\u8ddf\u90aa\u7075\u3001\u9b3c\u7075\u6c9f\u901a\u7684\u3002Channels\uff0c spiritual channels\uff0c now some of these channels have PhDs in psychology. In fact\uff0cmy former doctor in my HMO\uff0chis wife is a union psychology doctoral\u8363\u683c\u6d3e\u7684\u3002Now my good friend\uff0c doctor Lois Chan\u5f20\u9038\u840d\uff0c\u5979\u81ea\u5df1\u59d3\u5f20\uff0c\u5979\u4ee5\u524d\u7684\u5df2\u6545\u7684\u4e08\u592b\u59d3\u9648Lois Chan\u3002\u5f20\u9038\u840d\uff08\u7ca4\u8bed\uff1a\u5f20\u4e9a\u840d\uff09\uff0c She wrote several books. One of these books is called <em>Unholy Alliance<\/em>\uff0c\u4e2d\u6587\u7248\u300a\u90aa\u9b54\u767b\u8bb2\u53f0\u300b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u672a\u7ecf\u540c\u610f\uff0c\u8bf7\u52ff\u64c5\u81ea\u5728\u5176\u5b83\u7f51\u7ad9\u6216\u5e73\u53f0\u8f6c\u8f7d\u548c\u520a\u767b\u8bfe\u7a0b\u7684\u9010\u5b57\u7a3f\uff1b\u8bfe\u7a0b\u7684\u9010\u5b57\u7a3f\u7684\u7248\u6743\u5f52\u300c\u4e2d\u534e\u5c55\u671b\u300d\uff0c\u7981\u6b62\u590d\u5370\u51fa\u7248\u7b49\u5546\u4e1a\u7528\u9014\u3002<\/p>\n<p>ccnci.org\u4e2d\u534e\u5c55\u671b\u5723\u7ea6\u5b66\u9662 HorizonCovenant@gmail.com<\/p>\n<p>OK\uff0cyou can just go to her website. Just type Lois Chan.L-o-i-s\uff0cChan\u6216\u8005\u662fchinesebiblicalcounseling.net\uff0c \u6216\u8005\u201c\u534e\u4eba\u5723\u7ecf\u8f85\u5bfc\u7f51\u201d\uff0c\u5979\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u7684\u7f51\u7ad9\u7684\uff0cso parts of her already on her website. she\u2019s very generous about that\u00a0 and I have been watching her carefully write her doctor dissertation, turn it into a book. \u00a0and then I bought up all unsold copies. Nobody dared to publish her book. Nobody wants to sell her book\uff0c so I bought them all. This is what her book says\uff0cshe studied this \uff08angmodanggi\u97f3\u8bd1\uff09,these spiritual channels who wrote books on psychology.\u8fd9\u4e9b\u7075\u5a92\u5199\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u7684\u4e66\uff0c\u5979\u5c31\u5217\u51fa\u8fd9\u4e9b\u7075\u5a92\u6240\u6307\u51fa\uff0c\u6240\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\u51e0\u5341\u79cd\u7684\u6559\u4e49doctrines\uff0cthat they would teach ok\uff0c\u597d\u4e8640\u300150\uff0cthen she asked the question.\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66secular psychology\uff0c\u4e00\u822c\u7684\u4e66\u5462\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u4f60\u53bbsales\u90a3\u91cc\u627e\u5f97\u5230\u90a3\u79cd\u7684\u4e66\u5462\u3002\u4f60\u4e0d\u662f\u8bf4\uff0c\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e66\u91cc\u9762\u6709\u521a\u624d\u6211\u8bb2\u90a3\u4e2achannels\u6240\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\u6559\u4e49\u7684\u591a\u5c11\u7684\u6210\u5206\u5462\uff1f how much of channels\u6240\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\uff0c\u8fdb\u5165\u5230\u4e16\u4fd7\u7684popular psychology \u91cc\u9762\u5462\uff0c\u6709\u591a\u5c11\u7684\u6559\u4e49\u6709\u8fdb\u5165\u5230Christian counseling\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u5723\u7ecf\u8f85\u5bfc\u3002\u4e00\u822c\u7684\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u90fd\u77e5\u9053\u7684\uff0c\u8bb2\u5bb6\u5ead\u7684\uff0c\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\uff0c\u8f85\u5bfc\u7684\u90a3\u4e9b\u7684\u4e66\uff0c\u4e0d\u8bba\u82f1\u6587\u7684\uff0c\u4e2d\u6587\u7684\u5462\uff0c\u7279\u522b\u662f\u82f1\u6587\u7684\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u8bf4\u90a3\u4e9b\uff08angmodanggi\u97f3\u8bd1\uff09\u53eb\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e1c\u897f?Let me tell you one. Love yourself. \u8fd9\u4e9b\u4ea4\u9b3c\u7684\u4eba\u5462\uff0c\u4e5f\u53eb\u4f60love yourself.\u597d\u4e86\uff0cThe answer is of all this doctrines.\u8fd9\u4e9b\u7075\u5a92channel\u6559\u5bfc\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c eighty percent\u8fdb\u5165\u5230popular psychology\u7684\u4e66\u91cc\u9762\u3002\u90a3\u6211\u95ee\u4f60\uff0chow many percent\u8fdb\u5165\u5230\u57fa\u7763\u6559\u8f85\u5bfc\u7684\u4e66\u91cc\u9762\u5462\uff1f\u4f60\u731c\u4e00\u731c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5047\u5982\u662f\u96f6\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u8868\u793a\u8363\u683c\u6d3e\u5c31\u662fintegration\u90a3\u4e9b\u5176\u5b83\u7684Christian council\u5f88\u6210\u529f\uff0c\u5408\u4e4e\u5723\u7ecf\uff0c\u6321\u4f4f\u4e86\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u8ddf\u90aa\u7075\u3002100\uff0c\u53d1\u73b0\u7684\u8bdd\u5462\uff0c\u5b8c\u5168\u5931\u8d25\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u5417\uff1f\u4f60\u731c\u662f\u591a\u5c11percent? The answer is fifty\uff0cfifty.\u4e00\u534a\u7075\u5a92\u8bb2\u5f97\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u4e00\u534a\u8fdb\u5165\u5230\u57fa\u7763\u6559\u7684\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u4e00\u822c\u7684\u5bb6\u5ead\u8f85\u5bfc\uff0c\u8f85\u5bfc\u7684\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e66\u91cc\u9762\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u8363\u683c\u6d3e\u662f\u5931\u8d25\u7684\u3002\u5c31\u662f\u8bf4\uff0c\u4eca\u5929\u7684\u57fa\u7763\u6559\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u548c\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u5df2\u7ecf\u5728promote\u5f88\u591a\u7075\u5a92\u5728\u8bb2\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u4ed6\u4eec\u5df2\u7ecf\u662f\u4e00\u628a\u58f0\u97f3\u3002\u90a3\u6211\u6ca1\u6709\u8bf4\u6bcf\u4e00\u4e2a\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u90fd\u662f\u7075\u5a92\uff0c\u6211\u6ca1\u6709\u8fd9\u6837\u8bf4\u3002\u6211\u8bf4\u4ed6\u4eec\u6240\u4e3b\u5f20\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u7684ideas\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u662f\u76f8\u540c\u7684\u3002\u7075\u5a92\uff0c\u4e16\u4fd7\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\uff0c\u57fa\u7763\u6559\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u6216\u8005\u8f85\u5bfc\u5b66\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u91cd\u590d\u6211\u7b2c\u4e00\u5929\u8bb2\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u4e0djudgmental about\u4eba\u7684\u52a8\u673a\u3002\u4e00\u822c\u8bfb\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u90fd\u662f\u597d\u5fc3\u8981\u5e2e\u52a9\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u4e4e\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4e2a\u8fc7\u6765\u4eba\uff0c\u67d0\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\u7684\u8fc7\u6765\u4eba\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u52a8\u673a\u4e00\u822c\u90fd\u5f88\u597d\uff0cthat I will be talking about.We are not being judgmental about their motivation.\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u63a5\u7eb3\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u79d1\u5b66\u7814\u7a76\u7ed3\u679c\u3002We receive with gratitude the legitimate results of the empirical research. \u8fd9\u662f\u771f\u7684\u53bb\u505a\u79d1\u5b66\uff0c\u5b9e\u9a8c\u51fa\u7684\u7ed3\u679c\u6211\u4eec\u662f\u8981\u8bfb\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7b2c\u4e09\uff0cWe are also now talking about individual techniques.\u9664\u975e\u90a3\u4e9btechniques\u8bc1\u660e\u662f\u4ece\u5f02\u6559\u6216\u501f\u8fc7\u6765\uff0c\u8b6c\u5982\u8bf4\uff1a\u50ac\u7720\u554ahypnosis\u6216\u8005\u6c99\u7bb1sandbox\uff0csandbox\u662f\u4eceCarl Jung\u90a3\u6d3e\u8fc7\u6765\u7684\uff0c\u662f\u6559\u4f1a\u7684\u3002ok\uff0c\u6211\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u8bf4\u6bcf\u4e2a\u641esandbox\u5c31\u662f\u8fd9\u6837\u5b50\u6559\u4f1a\uff0c\u5305\u62ec\u4e1c\u5357\u4e9a\u5f88\u51fa\u540d\u7684\u798f\u97f3\u6d3e\u7684\u795e\u5b66\u9662\uff0c\u6bcf\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b66\u751f\u90fd\u8981\u505a\u6c99\u7bb1\u6cbb\u7597\uff0csandbox\u4f60\u53bb\u6c99\u7bb1\uff0c\u4f60\u53bb\u6478\u3001\u6478\u3001\u6478\u3001\u6478\u3001\u6478\uff0c\u6478\u5230\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u5c31\u597d\u50cf\u789f\u4ed9\u5dee\u4e0d\u591a\uff0couija board\u3002<\/p>\n<p>ok\u4f60\u518d\u542c\u6e05\u695a\u54e6We\u2019re not being judgmental of people&#8217;s motives.\u4e0d\u662f\u5728\u8bba\u65ad\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u52a8\u673a\uff0c we\u2019re not being judgemental\uff0c definitely not judgemental about scientific research.\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u6b63\u5e38\u7684\u81ea\u7136\u79d1\u5b66\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u7814\u7a76\u51fa\u6765\u7684\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u62dc\u8bfb\u7684\u3002\u6bcf\u4e00\u79cd\u7684technique\u6280\u5de7\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u56de\u5e94\u90fd\u4f1a\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\uff0cwhat we are criticing is\u6211\u4eec\u5728\u8fd9\u91cc\u6240\u6279\u8bc4\u7684\u662fthe major schools of psychology\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u7684\u4e3b\u8981\u7684\u5b66\u6d3e\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684view of man\u00a0 \u201c\u4eba\u89c2\u201d\uff0c\u5dee\u4e0d\u591a\u6ca1\u6709\u4e00\u6d3e\u76f8\u4fe1\u795e\u5b58\u5728\uff0c\u4e16\u754c\u6709\u795e\u8ff9\uff0c\u4eba\u6709\u7075\u9b42\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u4e00\u6d3e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f17\u6d1b\u4f0a\u5fb7\u5f88\u618e\u6068\u57fa\u7763\u6559\u7684\uff0cCarl Jung\u662f\u4ea4\u9b3c\u7684\uff0cCarl Rogers\u4e5f\u662f\u76f8\u4fe1\u90a3\u4e9b\u7075\u754c\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\u7684\uff0chuman potential. 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It\u2019s CRTS\uff0c China Reformed\u00a0 Theological\u00a0Seminary\uff0c\u6539\u9769\u5b97\u795e\u5b66\u9662\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u627e\u6539\u9769\u5b97\u795e\u5b66\u9662\u5c31\u5e94\u8be5\u627e\u5f97\u5230\u5723\u7ecf\u8f85\u5bfc\uff0c\u4e2d\u6587\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u95f4\u3002\u82f1\u6587\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u5404\u79cd\uff0c\u6709\u6d78\u4fe1\u4f1a\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u6539\u9769\u5b97\u7684\u7b49\u7b49\uff0c\u6709\u72ec\u7acb\u6559\u4f1a\uff0c\u6709\u597d\u51e0\u95f4\u90fd\u975e\u5e38\u597d\u7684\u3002Can other methods be complimentary to biblical counseling \u5462? The answer is\uff0c if you won\u2019t talk about individual techniques\uff0c well\uff0c I\u2019m sure it\u2019s possible but I\u2019m not interested in that subject. OK\uff0c what we\u2019re interested is the presupposition: What is man. Where do his problems come from and where do solutions come from? In mutual cases\uff0c where the Bible did not successfully give direction\uff0c wouldn\u2019t non-directive counseling be better? \u8b6c\u5982\u8bf4\uff0cFIFA football and whom to marry.<\/p>\n<p>\u9996\u5148FIFA football\u4e0d\u662f\u5723\u7ecf\u8f85\u5bfc\u7684\u5185\u5bb9\uff0c\u6211\u662f\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\u7684\u3002\u7136\u540e\u5462\uff0c \u201cwhom to marry\u201d\uff0c well\uff0c ok\uff0c first of all\uff0c the Bible gives direction in many ways. Number one\uff0c what to do or what not to do\uff0c commandments. Number two\uff0c principle. Number three\uff0c what pleases God.\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u201cwhom to marry\u201d believers\uff0c\u5723\u7ecf\u6709\u6559\u5bfc\uff0c\u4e0d\u662fnon-directive counseling\uff0c\u80cc\u540e\u662fCarl Rodgers\uff0c ok\uff0cwho does not believe man has soul.\u6211\u4eec\u662f\u7ed9\u4ed6\u61c2\u5f97\u600e\u4e48have wisdom to apply the Bible.\u4e0d\u662f non-directive counseling. I am not willing to use that term because that carries all kinds of baggage from Gary Rollins back to Carl Rogers. \u6bcf\u4e00\u6b21\u6211\u4eec\u505a\u8f85\u5bfc\u4e5f\u662f\u5728apply the Bible\uff0c\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4ec5interpret\uff0c it\u2019s apply\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u5e2e\u52a9\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u600e\u4e48apply the Bible\u6765\u6765\u89e3\u51b3\u8b6c\u5982\u8bf4\uff1a\u60f3\u8ddf\u8c01\u7ed3\u5a5a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4e3e\u4e2a\u4f8b\u5b50\uff0c\u6211\u627e\u4e00\u4e2a\u4f8b\u5b50\u7ed9\u4f60\u4eec\u770b\u3002Page eighty-seven\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8bb2\u4e49\u7b2c87\u9875page eighty-seven\u597d\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e2acouncilor\u8fd9\u6837\u8bf4\uff0cMichael\uff0cyou turned in our question form\uff0c you said the problem is church membership. Can you explain what you mean? Michael \u8bf4\uff0cOh\uff0cno problem. This is my problem. 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