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\u73b0\u5728\u6765\u8bb2\u4e86\u54e6\uff0c\u7231\uff0c\u662f\u59d4\u8eab\u3002Love is an act of the will. \u7231\u662f\u610f\u5fd7\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u7684\u52a8\u4f5c\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u884c\u52a8\u3002The will makes a commitment. \u6211\u4eec\u7684\u610f\u5fd7\uff0c\u505a\u4e00\u4e2a\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002I make a commitment that I will seek the highest good of the other person. \u610f\u5fd7\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\u7684\u51b3\u5b9a\u662f\uff1a\u6211\u613f\u610f\u52aa\u529b\u5730\u3001\u5c3d\u529b\u5730\u8c0b\u6c42\u5bf9\u65b9\u6700\u9ad8\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u3002\u4e0d\u662f\u6211\u7684\u5e78\u798f\uff01Marriage\uff0c which dream do you have? 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